I admit it! I watch too much HGTV. My days are consumed with all things real estate, but my nights too? My family just doesn't understand it.
I'm not even sure I can explain it. There are too many commercials, too many unrealistic people, and way too many pat answers for everything. Maybe I just need to know what my potential homebuyers and sellers are being fed in the way of expectations.
But last night, the program My First Place was ridiculous! At first, the program proceeded like all the others in this series--formulaically from current living arrangements, criteria, the search, the negotiations, the inspections, the closing, the closing gift.
Except on last night's show, the young couple is in the agent's office. They have found the house of their dreams. They have written the offer, faxed it over to the other agent, and were waiting for the response. Then one of the couple says to the other, "The sellers pick up the closing costs, right?" And with that, the agent walks in to tell them that their offer is accepted! Oops, now what? Where are they going to get the $9000 they need for closing costs?
ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Apparently, this was the first time that the subject of closing costs came up, which I find very difficult to believe. I personally don't know any Realtor who would not discuss closing costs long before an offer is written.
In addition, who did they talk to about a mortgage? Because I don't think a reputable mortgage person would omit closing costs from any discussions either.
Shows like this put our profession in a bad light. We come across as self-serving charlatans out to make a quick buck. The public never sees the hours of education, research, facilitation, negotiation, and administration that goes into every deal.
So I guess the moral of my story is: Don't rely on HGTV for all of your information about buying or selling a home. While there are nuggets of truth and helpful ideas, homebuyers and sellers should educate themselves about the process. There are professionals in the fields of real estate, financing, and law who will make your real estate transaction happen with all the diligence this expensive transaction deserves.
Each transaction is unique and unforeseen problems occasionally arise, but your best approach is knowledge and planning. Find professionals who can help expand your knowledge and monitor the entire deal with you. And watch HGTV as entertainment, not reality.
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Peggy Chirico, REALTOR®
Serving the Greater Hartford Area
Prudential CT Realty
peggychirico@gmail.com
860-748-8900
If you are buying or selling a home in Hartford County or Tolland County, please call me, email me, or visit my website. I would be happy to help you with your home search or provide a market analysis for your home.
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